The other day, at a Fashion Week party, my friend Alan and I stood against a wall, scanning the room for hot people, as you do. I told him that, at 31, the realization was probably a bit overdue, but I knew what he meant: As one gets older, it becomes harder and harder to be attracted to someone simply because of the way they look. Or perhaps we become more acutely aware of the impermanence of beauty after experiencing our own signs of aging? While some people clearly feel proud to have a hottie on their arm, others are more comfortable having the upper hand in the beauty department. Millie and I lived together during our early and mid-twenties, and at the time, it felt like every other week she had a new model boyfriend. Most of us, at some point in our lives, have hung posters of models and movie stars on our bedroom walls.
Why the Smartest People Have the Toughest Time Dating
Breadcrumbing: What it is and how to spot it
Recently my friend Jennifer Wright at TheGloss. She asked me about why this might be, assuming it was true at all. Then she wrote about it for The Gloss. Here's my answer :. I think its more complex than that. Smart women rationally respond to this by spending more time in school acquiring the tools they think they need in the knowledge economy, and once in the work force, working more and harder. The rewards for the dumb staying in school or working long hours are considerably smaller, so they rationally choose more leisure time.
Signs the person you’re dating is just not that into you
Women like you really turn these guys on, but the key word here is women. Before he wants smart, he wants female. If you want to attract smart, successful men here are two simple things you can start doing today. This will also benefit you everywhere else in your life, btw.
I read voraciously. I like to discuss weighty issues. I know a little bit about a lot and can pretty much hold my own in any cocktail party conversation. They live in their heads. They have enough information and ammunition to be impossible to argue with.