When it comes to love, sometimes what we say we want and what we actually wind up wanting can be two totally different things. Take for example the complex topic of what men honestly think about dating an intelligent woman. If you ask a guy how he feels about dating a smart woman, he'll probably say something along the lines of, "Sure, I don't care," or even, "Yes! Intelligence is extremely attractive! But in truth, studies have shown that while men might talk a big game about loving women with gigantic brains in theory, smart women actually make most of them feel insecure. When faced with the real possibility of dating a woman who is a smarter, higher achieveer, most men quiclkly lose interest in actually pursuing her.
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As if dating was not hard enough, men seem to be drawn to women who are socially considered gorgeous. Now, it is not known specifically what constitutes someone as gorgeous but the same few features are usually involved; a banging body, long hair according to Patty Stanger and the ultimate key to the puzzle: someone who is wanted by many, many, many men. When you finally land that gorgeous girl all seems right in the world, nothing could go wrong but oh, wait; now you have to maintain her. This means dealing with your relationship along with dealing with the ups and downs of dating a girl that is considered gorgeous. Having a hot girlfriend can be more trouble than it is worth, especially when dealing with things like other guys including your friends trying to steal your girl like she is some kind of conquest, but also having to deal with a girl whose head may be so blown up that on top of treating you like crap, she expects you to fund her lifestyle that normally includes going out, drinking, partying and shopping.
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I'm not insecure, so I wouldn't have a problem dating someone who's smarter than me. My boyfriend is younger than me but smarter so I think that's very attractive. If I'm dating someone I want to be able to have an intelligent conversation with them and not just say everything that I know and have them say, "Yea Really, who wants to carry on a conversation with someone who has the intelligence of a brick wall?
I was a dumb boy but now i'm way smarter, that's my point, i like human being growing into someone better. I'd be like What if she doesn't like me Or what if she leaves me.!