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Dating Etiquette After Spouse Dies
How to Date After the Death of a Spouse | Healthfully
Losing a girlfriend can be just as heartbreaking as losing a spouse, depending on the relationship between you and your former girlfriend, how long you dated and if you were in love with her. It sounds more serious when someone loses a spouse, but losing a loved one, regardless of the title, can be devastating. Jumping back into the dating scene can come with a lot of hurdles and bumps. According to Helpguide. You may not go straight from denial to anger to bargaining.
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Sometime after the death of your spouse, you will think about dating, especially if you liked being married. This may be in a month; it may be in five years. Whenever you start, you'll probably feel guilty, like you're cheating on your wife, husband, or partner. Even if your spouse said she wanted you to date again, you will feel odd about asking someone out.
I turned 60 the December before he died. Many friends came together and surprised me with a beautiful party, but I missed not having my husband there by my side, as he was at home, in hospice care. Several months earlier, I retired from my profession as an art teacher, having decided to give all my attention to caring for my husband Chuck.